What Not To Call A Woman

To all the gentlemen.

Question: Have you ever call a woman a certain name(s) and she asked you not to call her that name again?

Answer: I know you will your answer is *YES*!.

Question:  Have you ever wonder why the differences among women and what they like to be called? 

Answer: Yes, No or Maybe

Well, this blog is for you. Not to be racist or stereotypical about this issue. So I will get to the point. Note I do not have research nor facts to support this blog.

Michelle Obama - First Lady to current President of United States of America Barack Obama

Question: How will you greet Mrs. Michelle Obama in the morning?

Me: I hope you say...

Answer 1: Good morning Mrs. Obama

Answer 2: Good morning Mrs. First Lady

Answer 3: Good morning Michelle

DO NOT SAY..

Answer 1: Good morning boo

Why: Most educated women from 30+ will not like call to be "BOO". its very disrespectful. 

Answer 2: Good morning Mrs. Bootiful 

Why: bootiful, excuse me,  that's reference to a woman as a sexual object PERIOD. 

Answer 3: Good morning babygirl 

Why:  There is a little exceptions to this one. The only person should call a woman "babygirl" is the biological father. No men should ever call a woman "babygirl". That makes us feel small.  

Answer 4: Good morning shawty

Why:  "shawty" WTF is that suppose to mean. Don't call women slang words PERIOD. 

Answer 5: Good morning Ma

Why: "Ma" Once again the only person to call a woman  "Ma" is her daughter. Another slang word.

Mrs. Michelle Obama is perfect example to emphasis my point. Most women demand the same respect across the board regardless of our social standing and status. 

List of some names not to call a woman over 30

1. Boo

2. red bone

3. sistah

4. sugar lips

5. hey

6. sweetie

7. miss

8. lady

9. Pets Name

10. Slang words

11. sexy - (50/50 among my friends) 

12. bootiful

14. shawty 

15. Homegirl 

Words hurt more than actions, so choose your words carefully. 

"Whatever words we utter should be chosen with care for people hear them and be influenced by them for good or ill" - Buddha 

Lists of some positive words to call a woman: 

1. Beautiful

2. Precious

3. Dear

5. Their birth names

6. Their Nickname if available

7. Their last name (use appropriately single or married)

8. Honey

9. Friend

10. Sexy (use appropriately)

11. Baby (use appropriately)

12. Darling (use appropriately)

13. Sugar (use appropriately) 

14. Darling (use appropriately)

Call women what you will call your mother or your grandmother. It's common sense. Most women over 30+ are very assertive and will immediately address this issues.  So gentlemen ,  respect your female friends and call them appropriately.